TO BE A BABYMAMA

To be a babymama goes out to all the babymamas out there doing their thing.
I'm a babymama and I want to talk about some of the things that many girls go through as a babymama. As a babymama we have NO choice but to grow up into women.
No matter how old we are when we chose to have these children, we must be the ones to grow up faster because the baby fathers won't. Men or "Babyfathers" are never really ready when they have children. These men walk around like they handle they business when they bearly do. Babyfathers love to have that title to make other women think that they are responisble....WRONG

Being a babymama means you are the one who takes on all the dead weight. We
do it all, we are the caretakers, financial supporters and the one's that will always be there. We can hope, pray and beg but we can't make the father be there. As a
babymama some of us need to stop trying to get these men to do what they need to.
If he want to have another girl, girl let him.
If he wants to front to his boys like he dont want you, fuck him.
If he wants to lie about chicks that ur friends and family saw him with, girl forget that nigga he aint worth it.
If he always crying broke but takes some girl out, DEAD BEAT DADDY
If we wants to say he aint got time to spend with his kid, he probably got another girl or worse another kid ughh.

Since I been a babymama I learned that you can't make No nigga take their kid(s) out so stop tryin.
A nigga can make babies all over the world but your the one stuck with these babies.
Ladies stop letting this niggas convince you they gone be there when their diggin your back out in bed cuz pussy make a nigga say anything.
And ladies dont sit back and be mad because this nigga aint there when you need him just put that in your memory bank because trust me, there will be plenty more fucked up shit that he does that will be added into there.
You just have to have the power to say "Fuck him I'ma show him I don't need his ass...."