Mmmmm this is a good question. Over the years that we all have dated there are plenty of things that our men have done. We may not want them out there messing with them “side-chicks” but they do. They do it not because the women are always lacking something in the relationship but because of their own selfish reasons.
Men have a problem and so cheating becomes their safe haven. They run to these girls because of 1 or 2 reasons. 1 reason is because they can’t help but to cheat. Some men do better when they don’t have that title of “My boyfriend or My man”. Another reason is because this chick might just be the total opposite of you. She might be the one that will be his homie lover friend or just that friend with benefits. Now I’m not tryna knock the girls that just want that title of “friends with benefits” all I’m saying is just get something more than just a nut.
Now in my life I have been cheated on whether it was by a friend, family member or just some girl I do not know. She was that nasty girl that would do any man that waved a dollar in the air. She would sleep with your man just because she wanted to get one off or just because you had him. She was that chick that would hold his drugs and guns whenever he asked her to. Huh good for her cuz that damn sure aint me. He even told me the different between you and her was she was a hood chick. I respect it all but a man gets tired of all that hood shit, and needs his lady to be a lady at times too but she couldn’t. So as I always say a side chick will be a side chick, but that main bitch remains the same.
Should you forgive him I will say yes, but only if it has been one time. You know why I say this because a lot of married people in this world have cheated. There are probably a handful of married couples in this world that can honestly say “I have never cheated on my wife or husband”. Our younger years are here for us to miss up in, and our older years will be when we have to work past the entire BS that we have been put through. When you find that one that you feel is your long lifetime partners don’t expect them to be perfect. Expect them to fuck up and learn from it, so it can make him/her a better man or woman for you in the long run.
I completely agree with you. Men were born insecure so to prove to themselves and others that they are "the man" they will cheat on their woman. The woman who doesn't have to be hood to ride or die. She will always be there but in a diffrent way. I guess they will never learn and we will always be there.
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